When writing the last article on chaos and comfort, another topic came to mind: the excitement of positive chaos. It became clear that the excitement of chaos is just as much a part of the return to abuse as comfort…
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The Familiarity of Chaos, Stop Choosing Abuse
There is a theory about victims who return to abusive relationships centered on the familiarity of chaos. The theory is that victims choose abusive relationships because of the familiarity of chaos which creates a false sense of control. Chaos is…